{"id":883,"date":"2014-11-12T18:19:29","date_gmt":"2014-11-12T18:19:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/?p=883"},"modified":"2014-11-08T01:58:58","modified_gmt":"2014-11-08T01:58:58","slug":"reasons-to-never-tell-casua-sex-partner-i-love-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/blog\/index.php\/reasons-to-never-tell-casua-sex-partner-i-love-you\/","title":{"rendered":"8 reasons you should never tell your casual sex partner \u201cI love you\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"8<\/a>Casual sex, by definition, is sex without emotions, without feelings and without commitment. No strings attached. Men, by nature, are better at casual sex than women<\/a>, who tend to develop feelings for whomever they sleep with. Many of us seem to have an innate ability to pick the perfect casual sex partners. When we see someone we would sleep with but never get serious with, we know it. We chose our casual sex partners on one basis only; hotness. If we are physically attracted to her, that is all that matters in the casual sex game. We don\u2019t care if she is intelligent, funny or kind. We don\u2019t care because we aren\u2019t in love. It\u2019s casual. Casual sex is not love<\/a> and you never tell your casual sex partner you love her for several reasons. Below I am going to explain the top 8 reasons why you should never ever ever tell your sex buddy, friend with benefits, F-buddy, casual sex partner or whatever name you may choose to call her “I Love You”
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\n1. The end is near<\/b>
\nOnce you tell her you love her it is over. It isn\u2019t casual anymore. Sometimes you are having so much fun with a gal that you want her to know your loving every minute of it. As long as you don\u2019t say those dreaded three words, you will be fine. Tell her any other way you\u2019d like. Just don\u2019t say \u201cI love you\u201d unless you are ready for the relationship to end.
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\n2. Sizzle Killer<\/b>
\nSaying \u201cI love you\u201d puts a huge damper on the thrill of a casual sexual relationship<\/a>. Casual sex is about the sex, the thrill of having nothing with this person but an unadulterated passion for each other is hot. The shivers you get when you see her, the rush of adrenaline when you touch, and the passion that courses through your veins when you know she is on her way to you will all dry up.
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\n3. Friendships Turn to Mush<\/b>
\nThere is a term that is applied to friends who also sleep together. \u201cFuck Buddy\u201d is a coveted relationship that involves casual sex with someone you like, party with and hang out with occasionally. No love, no commitments, just fun and sex. Once love and emotion enters the picture, you not only lose your friend but your fuck buddy as well. No fun.
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\n4. Trust Breaker<\/b>
\nWe have discovered men are better at casual sex than women but if you have found a great casual sex partner, crossing the line with an \u201cI love you\u201d can break her trust<\/a>. She is in this kind of relationship for her own reasons. If she wanted to be in a romantic, long-term relationship, she would be. She trusts you to stay the course you began and not rock the boat. Don\u2019t let her down.
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