{"id":1320,"date":"2016-07-23T19:00:53","date_gmt":"2016-07-23T19:00:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/?p=1320"},"modified":"2016-06-29T02:06:45","modified_gmt":"2016-06-29T02:06:45","slug":"how-long-does-it-take-the-average-woman-to-climax","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/blog\/index.php\/how-long-does-it-take-the-average-woman-to-climax\/","title":{"rendered":"How Long Does It Take The Average Woman To Climax?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/index.php\/top-casual-sex-sites\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/How-Long-Does-It-Take-The-Average-Woman-To-Climax_.jpg\" alt=\"How-Long-Does-It-Take-The-Average-Woman-To-Climax_\" width=\"450\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-1322\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/How-Long-Does-It-Take-The-Average-Woman-To-Climax_.jpg 450w, https:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/How-Long-Does-It-Take-The-Average-Woman-To-Climax_-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a>Generally, guys will climax faster than women, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.quora.com\/Why-do-men-reach-orgasm-quicker-than-women\" target=\"_blank\">find out<\/a> why here, and often this leads to sex ending before women even get the chance to finish. We all know that this isn\u2019t always the case and that there are some men out there who can get their girlfriends or wives to finish a couple times before they even let themselves climax. Let\u2019s be real though, guys. If you\u2019re reading this article, then you\u2019re less interested in knowing the exact amount of time the average woman will climax and more interested in figuring out how you can make her finish faster. So let\u2019s dive in.<\/p>\n<p>The problem with that train of thought in the first place is that you can\u2019t make her finish faster. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.webmd.boots.com\/sex-relationships\/guide\/what-happens-to-body-during-sex\" target=\"_blank\">Studies show<\/a> that women, on average, take more time to have an orgasm faster than men, but that their orgasms last longer and are more intense. Doubtless, this has some sort of evolutionary advantage, but the point is that you don\u2019t make your significant other orgasm, but rather you just make it easier for her to let herself orgasm. No matter how good you are in bed, fellas, she will not be able to climax if she doesn\u2019t have certain needs met. The best you can do is make it easier for her to lose control and let it happen! So if you\u2019re worried about how long she is taking to get on your level, here are some tips that might make it a bit smoother.<\/p>\n<h3>Keep distractions to a minimum<\/h3>\n<p>Distractions throw everyone off their game, so minimizing these in the bedroom can help your wife or girlfriend orgasm a little faster, and probably make it easier for yourself as well. Guaranteed, it will be difficult for her to lose herself in the sex if she is too hot or too cold, so make sure you think of this ahead of time. If you\u2019ll be under the covers, keep it cool and have a fan going. Also, try to keep startling noises to a minimum. Background noise like a television or music may not be a problem, but certain noises like cell phone notifications are designed to give us a small shock to alert us. So if you think your girl is getting distracted, silence your phones and make sure she\u2019s comfortable.<br \/>\n<center><br \/>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/C3-Y28PYBHM\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><br \/>\n<\/center><\/p>\n<h3>Find the foreplay balance<\/h3>\n<p>Even though this seems like the opposite of what we always hear, there is such a thing as <a href=\"https:\/\/www.menshealth.com\/sex-women\/5-big-foreplay-mistakes\" target=\"_blank\">too much foreplay<\/a>. We all know that women usually get more pleasure out of sex when you don\u2019t go straight for penetration, but rather get both of yourselves turned on with some oral or hand play until she\u2019s properly wet and you\u2019re hard as a rock. The trick here, though, is to not let foreplay go on too long. Think of any long movie you\u2019ve seen with way too much anticipation and you\u2019ll realize how the amount of time spent in \u201cforeplay mode\u201d can be delicate. Get the rollercoaster to the top of the incline, but don\u2019t let it sit at the peak too long before taking the plunge and letting the real excitement begin or you\u2019ll end up ruining all of the anticipation you successfully built up.<\/p>\n<h3>Be in the moment<\/h3>\n<p>Often, if a woman knows she takes longer than usual to finish, she can end up worrying about it during sex and just ultimately taking longer to orgasm. If she thinks you\u2019re thinking about it, you\u2019re just adding time to the clock. Don\u2019t make it about time, but make it about pleasure instead. Let her know that what you\u2019re experiencing is amazing and you don\u2019t care how long it lasts as long as it\u2019s perfect. You\u2019ll be amazed how much smoother and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.cosmopolitan.com\/sex-love\/positions\/advice\/a3727\/the-sex-moves-she-craves\/\" target=\"_blank\">more enjoyable sex<\/a> becomes when you are in the moment and not worrying about the end. <\/p>\n<h3>Let her be on top<\/h3>\n<p>Most people <a href=\"https:\/\/www.maxim.com\/maxim-man\/7-reasons-why-she-loves-being-top\" target=\"_blank\">prefer being on top during sex<\/a> because that is when you have the most control over your own pleasure. So if you\u2019re on top and getting close, but she hasn\u2019t caught up to you yet, switch things up and let her take some time on top. Sit back, hold on to her hips, and let her do what moves feel best for her and what pacing she needs. I guarantee she will know exactly how fast or slow to go at any given moment to get to orgasm, just like we all do when we\u2019re let\u2019s say \u201cplaying a solo game.\u201d<\/p>\n<h3>Help her feel safe<\/h3>\n<p> If this is more of a hookup than a relationship, she may just not feel as safe around you as she wants. Women are smart enough to know what can go wrong in situations like this, so do whatever you can to keep her at ease. Don\u2019t be creepy, let her call the shots, and don\u2019t make her feel trapped in any way.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Generally, guys will climax faster than women, find out why here, and often this leads to sex ending before women even get the chance to finish. We all know that this isn\u2019t always the case and that there are some men out there who can get their girlfriends or wives to finish a couple times [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1323,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[398,399,400],"class_list":["post-1320","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-article","tag-how-long-does-it-take-the-average-woman-to-climax","tag-how-long-does-it-take-the-average-woman-to-orgasm","tag-woman-orgasm"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1320","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1320"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1320\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1330,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1320\/revisions\/1330"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1323"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1320"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1320"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1320"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}