{"id":1299,"date":"2016-08-10T18:44:34","date_gmt":"2016-08-10T18:44:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/?p=1299"},"modified":"2016-06-25T18:33:41","modified_gmt":"2016-06-25T18:33:41","slug":"best-way-to-make-her-cum","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/blog\/index.php\/best-way-to-make-her-cum\/","title":{"rendered":"Best Ways To Make Her Cum"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/index.php\/top-casual-sex-sites\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/Best-Ways-To-Make-Her-Cum.jpg\" alt=\"Best-Ways-To-Make-Her-Cum\" width=\"450\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-1303\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/Best-Ways-To-Make-Her-Cum.jpg 450w, https:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/Best-Ways-To-Make-Her-Cum-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a>Okay, I\u2019m going to get this out of the way now just to save some of you time: I am a 25-year-old guy writing about how to best make your girl climax. Cue the collective eye roll from women around the world. Yes, men absolutely know their own bodies better than women do, and women of course know their bodies better than men. Hell, why do you think so many straight people occasionally go and play for the other team now and then? That being said, this article is less about me thinking I\u2019m a sex god and more about just relaying the advice I have gotten in bed from the women who\u2019ve had enough pity on me to give me a good time. Everyone is different and likes certain aspects of sex better than others. Every woman definitely has some very specific things that they prefer, but in my experience there have been four things that I\u2019ve noticed are consistent with my limited data set. Here are the<a href=\"https:\/\/www.menshealth.co.uk\/sex\/better\/Give-her-an-orgasm-in-15-minutes\" target=\"_blank\"> best ways to make her reach an orgasm<\/a>.<br \/>\n<br clear=\"all\" \/><\/p>\n<h3>Don\u2019t forget foreplay<\/h3>\n<p>There are times when both of you are just so ready to go that you both tacitly agree to skip the foreplay and just go for the goal. Maybe you\u2019re trying to finish quick in your friend\u2019s bathroom at a party. Most of the time though, you both need a little bit of build-up for things to really get explosive. If you\u2019re not in a rush, don\u2019t act like you\u2019re just trying to get it in quick with zero personal attachment or romance. There might be the occasional woman who prefers that, but for the most part, both men and women benefit from the warm-up act. There\u2019s more to sex than just penetration, after all, and foreplay will help you both out in the end! When she can\u2019t get wetter and you can\u2019t get harder, when you both just can\u2019t stand it anymore, then let the main event begin.<a href=\"https:\/\/www.webmd.com\/sex-relationships\/features\/sex-why-foreplay-matters-especially-for-women\" target=\"_blank\"> Click here to learn why women need foreplay.<\/a><br \/>\n<center><br \/>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/M0eoBFWBrbg\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><br \/>\n<\/center><\/p>\n<h3>Explore her body<\/h3>\n<p>Vaginal pleasure is well-known, but sometimes it seems like guys forget that there are tons of other places that feel amazing too, and the only way to find them is to search. Take off clothes slowly and work your way down, and don\u2019t forget to pay attention to her <a href=\"https:\/\/www.womansday.com\/relationships\/sex-tips\/advice\/a1319\/7-forgotten-female-erogenous-zones-103643\/\" target=\"_blank\">other erogenous zones<\/a> too. Give some attention to her neck, breasts, nipples, belly button, clitoris, and even a little around the back door too if she seems to like that a little. You\u2019ll never really know what she likes until you give a little attention to these places. Does she like getting her toes sucked? Only one way to find out. Hell, if you can show her some pleasure that she hasn\u2019t experienced before, then those are bonus points for you, my friend.<\/p>\n<h3>Listen to what she wants<\/h3>\n<p>This was simultaneously the most simple and ground-breaking advice I\u2019ve ever gotten in bed. Most men and women are too shy to tell their partner exactly what they want and end up suffering a little as a result. I\u2019m sure you\u2019ve had some occasions when the girl you were in bed with was handling you all wrong. Hey, she doesn\u2019t have a penis of her own, it\u2019s understandable! But remember that when you\u2019re trying to please her too because I guarantee you are doing something in a way she doesn\u2019t prefer. If she isn\u2019t bold enough to critique you, then find out how she likes it! Maybe don\u2019t directly ask her in the moment, but you can have a conversation late about how to do something specifically to her liking. If you are unsure in the moment, it can be as simple as moving her hands onto your hands, head, hip, wherever and tacitly giving her control over how you do whatever you\u2019re doing.<\/p>\n<h3>Keep it fresh<\/h3>\n<p>I assume I don\u2019t have to spend too much time on this one, but no one likes boring sex. Especially if this is a longer relationship, it\u2019s important to occasionally toss in some new positions, new foreplay, new locations, or change up the timing, speed, and force of your thrusts. Neither of you should be getting bored during your most intimate exercise.<\/p>\n<h3>Don\u2019t be selfish<\/h3>\n<p>Every couple is different, but most likely the guy will be ready and able to cum before his girl. If you start to notice a pattern that you cum fast before she even seems like she was getting into it, then it\u2019s time to make some changes. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bustle.com\/articles\/95227-how-to-deal-with-someone-whos-selfish-in-bed-and-what-it-means-for-your\" target=\"_blank\">Here are tips for dealing with someone who is selfish in bed<\/a>. She should absolutely be cumming too, and even better if it\u2019s at the same time that you are. Sex is a team sport, fellas, so don\u2019t be selfish and make sure you do what you have to do to give her a good time as well. If you\u2019re the guy who consistently worries about your own pleasure, then you won\u2019t be having \u201cpleasure\u201d very often.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Okay, I\u2019m going to get this out of the way now just to save some of you time: I am a 25-year-old guy writing about how to best make your girl climax. Cue the collective eye roll from women around the world. Yes, men absolutely know their own bodies better than women do, and women [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1304,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[386,128,389,385,388,387],"class_list":["post-1299","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-article","tag-best-ways-to-make-her-cum","tag-erogenous-zones","tag-foreplay","tag-how-to-make-her-cum","tag-how-to-make-her-orgasm","tag-make-her-orgasm"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1299","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1299"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1299\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1315,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1299\/revisions\/1315"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1304"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1299"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1299"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1299"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}