{"id":1082,"date":"2015-12-16T02:03:07","date_gmt":"2015-12-16T02:03:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/?p=1082"},"modified":"2015-11-28T17:03:30","modified_gmt":"2015-11-28T17:03:30","slug":"what-women-really-want-from-casual-sex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/blog\/index.php\/what-women-really-want-from-casual-sex\/","title":{"rendered":"What Women Really Want From Casual Sex"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/index.php\/top-casual-sex-sites\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/What-Women-Really-Want-From-Casual-Sex.jpg\" alt=\"What-Women-Really-Want-From-Casual-Sex\" width=\"400\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-1126\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/What-Women-Really-Want-From-Casual-Sex.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/What-Women-Really-Want-From-Casual-Sex-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a>Try as we might, we\u2019ll never really know what goes in a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.livescience.com\/14421-human-brain-gender-differences.html\" target=\"_blank\">woman\u2019s mind<\/a>, especially while we\u2019re flirting and trying to get them home and into our bed.  When we go out, fellas, we tend to just focus on what we want out of the night. We want to find a hot girl, flirt and drink and flirt some more, and hopefully get her naked back at our place. Maybe, though, we would be more successful if we actually considered what she wanted out of the night as well. It\u2019s not like these women just go along with it and hope they\u2019ll have fun, they want to have casual sex as much as you do! <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/blog\/sexualitytoday\/201312\/do-women-casual-sex\" target=\"_blank\">Click Here<\/a> to find out why women love casual sex too. Every woman is different and wants certain things out of a casual hookup, but for the most part, they fall around the same lines.<br \/>\n<br clear=\"all\" \/><br clear=\"all\" \/><\/p>\n<h3>Girls Just Want To Have Fun<\/h3>\n<p>No matter who you are, casual sex is all about fun. If she isn\u2019t having a good time before the sex, you can guarantee she\u2019s doubting whether she\u2019ll have fun during sex. The dating world is supposed to be exciting and adventurous and fun. Not to say that relationships can\u2019t also be fun, but she is not looking for routine in a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.yourtango.com\/2014217510\/hooking-up-casual-sex-facts-science-one-night-stands\" target=\"_blank\">casual one night stand.<\/a> So be imaginative and keep her interested. Speaking of which, Fun can quickly be killed by any drama that arises. If a family member or ex-girlfriend calls, don\u2019t answer it right now. If your car breaks down, you might be sunk. Sometimes we get a crappy roll of the dice and karma has our number. <\/p>\n<h3>Variety and new experiences <\/h3>\n<p>If she\u2019s going to hop into bed with a stranger, she wants to have something more than your average everyday sex. She\u2019s hoping for new moves from you or at least better than your run-of-the-mill missionary. She probably won\u2019t expect you to be a contortionist with encyclopedic knowledge of internal female anatomy and obscure sexual positions from the Far East, but she will most likely at least expect to not feel like it\u2019s your one year anniversary. After all, casual sex opens us up to new experiences inherently, so you need to make sure you give in to that and change things up. She may not want to date you, but that doesn\u2019t mean she doesn\u2019t want to be impressed.<br \/>\n<center><br \/>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/AiTbVZujpcA\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><br \/>\n<\/center><\/p>\n<h3>Explore fantasies<\/h3>\n<p>When it comes to anonymous sex, women and men both get to enjoy the fact that they don\u2019t plan on seeing this person again. This means that she can ask for exactly what she wants and try new things that she\u2019s always wanted to try. (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.menprovement.com\/sexual-fantasies-for-women\/\" target=\"_blank\">Common Fantasies women have<\/a>) Since it\u2019s just a fling, you can probably do the same too without feeling too self-conscious. Hell, it\u2019s all just having fun, right? If she isn\u2019t forward enough to tell you what she wants, try to coax her into divulging her desires. After all, now is the time! Just as long as you\u2019re both okay with whatever fantasy either of you throw out there, the night will go well if you just keep an open mind and let her feel like she can ask for exactly what she wants.<\/p>\n<h3>Little responsibility<\/h3>\n<p>Now when I say \u201clittle,\u201d I mean bare minimum. She can expect to need to make sure she doesn\u2019t get and STD, pregnant, or abducted, and that she can get home when the fun is over. Beyond that, she wants casual sex to be a freeing and fun experience, to be an escape. If at any point you cause her to have to worry about you or take care of you, then you already lost her interest. So, don\u2019t get so hammered that you\u2019re throwing up, and avoid any problems that may complicate things, like transportation issues. Keep the night light and stupid. <\/p>\n<h3>The opposite of dating<\/h3>\n<p>Furthermore, she wants a very brief sexual relationship with zero of the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.yourtango.com\/experts\/gloria-macdonald\/flummoxed-failure-or-focused\" target=\"_blank\">responsibility of a real relationship<\/a> right now. Real relationships are exhausting, whether you\u2019re a man or woman, newly dating or married for thirty years. When you\u2019re ready to be in a relationship, it\u2019s all worth it. At the moment though, that\u2019s not what she\u2019s looking for if she\u2019s trying to get you into bed for <a href=\"https:\/\/www.womenshealthmag.com\/sex-and-love\/casual-sex-is-a-good-idea\" target=\"_blank\">one night of casual sex<\/a>. If you both feel sparks throughout the night and you can tell there\u2019s something more going on than just a fling, ignore it for the night and address that the following day or week. The night of casual sex she wants, though, is outside of those thoughts. So check your ego and insecurities at the door, grab some wine, and make her feel like it\u2019s okay for her to forget your name.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Try as we might, we\u2019ll never really know what goes in a woman\u2019s mind, especially while we\u2019re flirting and trying to get them home and into our bed. When we go out, fellas, we tend to just focus on what we want out of the night. 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