{"id":1079,"date":"2015-11-14T02:03:04","date_gmt":"2015-11-14T02:03:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/?p=1079"},"modified":"2015-10-03T15:39:56","modified_gmt":"2015-10-03T15:39:56","slug":"basic-rules-of-a-one-night-stand","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/blog\/index.php\/basic-rules-of-a-one-night-stand\/","title":{"rendered":"The Basic Rules Of A One Night Stand"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"The-basic-rules-of-a-one-night-stand\"<\/a>It\u2019s often said that there are \u201csingle people\u201d and there are \u201crelationship people,\u201d but the truth often is that everyone is a little bit of both, depending on where they are in their lives. Even single \u201crelationship people\u201d<\/a> may occasionally have a fun one night stand. And that\u2019s because that\u2019s what they are. They\u2019re fun! Or at least they can be when both of you involved are doing it right.<\/p>\n

When you are in the mood to find a girl for the night with no strings attached, most likely you\u2019ll head for a nearby bar. Let\u2019s say you find a hottie, you both begin to click, you begin to flirt, maybe get a little handsy. You can feel a one-night stand is in the forecast and you are excited in more than one way. Things can go south very quickly, though, if you both aren\u2019t following some basic rules <\/a>tonight.
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Be honest<\/h3>\n

Be honest with what you\u2019re looking to get out of tonight, and make sure she is looking for the same thing. One night stands are about fun sex with no strings attached, so you need to make it clear that that\u2019s all this is and make sure she\u2019s okay with it (and that you\u2019re okay with it too). Which leads into\u2026<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t take things personally<\/h3>\n

Tonight is just about having fun and feeling attractive and awesome, even if you aren\u2019t. If it becomes clear that she isn\u2019t that into you or you\u2019re not that into her from the start, then things can get very awkward very fast if one of you gets bent out of shape about it. On the other hand, if it becomes obvious that you both feel like tonight could lead to something more, then by all means you should discuss it. The proper time for that, however, is after all the fun, casual sex. Not before.<\/p>\n

Be safe, in every sense<\/h3>\n

I hope this is a no-brainer, but wear a damn condom<\/a>. Even if she says she\u2019s on birth control already, you never know what exactly it is or how careful she is with it. This is a stranger, after all, and you should only trust strangers so far, even if they are naked. Her birth control won\u2019t protect you against STDs either, but your condom will. Read about<\/a> the effectiveness of condoms. So just wear one, or you\u2019ll be gambling whether the night results in a prescription or a baby. Also, keep your wallet hidden and make sure you pay attention in case something feels off. If something seems wrong with the situation or her, get out of there with everyone\u2019s dignity intact. This brings me to the next rule.
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