{"id":1006,"date":"2015-08-02T21:44:29","date_gmt":"2015-08-02T21:44:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/?p=1006"},"modified":"2015-06-21T16:35:04","modified_gmt":"2015-06-21T16:35:04","slug":"pros-and-cons-of-sleeping-with-married-man","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/blog\/index.php\/pros-and-cons-of-sleeping-with-married-man\/","title":{"rendered":"The Pros and Cons of Sleeping With a Married Man"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"The-Pros-and-Cons-of-Sleeping-With-a-Married-Man\"<\/a>If you\u2019re thinking about having an affair, one of the many things you\u2019ll need to consider is the kind of man you\u2019d like to have an affair with. Of the many options you have, perhaps the largest pool you\u2019ll have to choose from is that of married men. There are certainly pros and cons to sleeping with someone who\u2019s already married<\/a>, and each are worth considering before you come to your decision.
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Pro – Discretion <\/h3>\n

If you\u2019re looking for someone who can guarantee you that they\u2019ll never leak a word of your affair, a married man is your guy. They have just as much to lose as you do, maybe even more. He has a wife, a home, a life, maybe even kids and he certainly doesn\u2019t want to let all of that be destroyed for the sake of sex, no matter how good the sex might be. This is especially important if you\u2019re also in a relationship yourself<\/a>, or are generally in a position where your life would be severely negatively impacted if you were outed as \u201cthe other woman.\u201d<\/p>\n

Con – It\u2019ll Never Be More<\/h3>\n

The problem with long term affairs with one particular person is that feelings can occur. This is especially true in an affair since you may not feel like you can talk to anyone else about your problems. As a result you end up talking to them more often. You spend time together, sharing your secrets and having fantastic sex on stolen evenings and weekends. It\u2019s not abnormal for feelings to appear between the two of you over time, but the problem is there\u2019s nothing you can do about it. It\u2019s not going to go anywhere beyond where it is. He\u2019s not going to leave his wife <\/a>for you, there are no wedding bells in your future, and it can be difficult to keep in mind that what you signed up for isn\u2019t going to involve past what it is like many relationships do naturally.
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