{"id":1005,"date":"2015-07-08T21:44:28","date_gmt":"2015-07-08T21:44:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/?p=1005"},"modified":"2015-06-21T15:58:56","modified_gmt":"2015-06-21T15:58:56","slug":"6-reasons-why-men-cheat","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/blog\/index.php\/6-reasons-why-men-cheat\/","title":{"rendered":"6 Reasons Why Men Seek Sex Even When In A Relationship"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/index.php\/top-casual-sex-sites\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/6-Reasons-Why-Men-Seek-Casual-Sex-Even-When-In-A-Relationship.jpg\" alt=\"6-Reasons-Why-Men-Seek-Casual-Sex-Even-When-In-A-Relationship\" width=\"400\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-1018\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/6-Reasons-Why-Men-Seek-Casual-Sex-Even-When-In-A-Relationship.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.onlycasualsex.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/6-Reasons-Why-Men-Seek-Casual-Sex-Even-When-In-A-Relationship-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a>You see a great guy in a perfect relationship with a girl most guys would kill to be with, and then you find out that he\u2019s cheated on her. Why? You can\u2019t imagine why anyone would cheat on a girl like that. As it turns out there are a lot of reasons why men seek out relationships outside of the one they\u2019re in now, and most of them are far less complex than we might imagine. Below you\u2019ll find some of the most <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/chelsea-ellise\/2015\/04\/6-cheating-men-confess-the-real-reason-to-why-they-slept-with-someone-else\/\" target=\"_blank\">common reasons men report<\/a> that they cheat on their wives or girlfriends, and you can decide for yourself if they\u2019re reasonable or not.<br \/>\n<br clear=\"all\" \/><br clear=\"all\" \/><\/p>\n<h3>1) &#8211; Someone Approached Them<\/h3>\n<p>Believe it or not, for some men all it takes is a proposition to pursue a sexual relationship with someone else. A pretty girl approached them, flirted a little, and flirting lead to a little bit more. A proposition was made and the man\u2019s ego and hormones took over from there. In many cases men report that it\u2019s because they weren\u2019t feeling appreciated enough in their relationships that they gave into temptation. The girl who approached them made them feel more loved than their girlfriends or wives had in years, giving them the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.yourtango.com\/experts\/rori-raye\/3-ways-make-him-fall\" target=\"_blank\">love and attention<\/a> they so desperately craved and felt like they couldn\u2019t get at home.<\/p>\n<h3>2) &#8211; She Didn\u2019t Want to Experiment<\/h3>\n<p>Sometimes men just get an itch. They\u2019ve always wanted to try this one particular thing, or they saw a maneuver on a porno that they\u2019re dying to try out in person. They approach their partner, ask if they\u2019re into it, and are promptly turned down. Like a good husband or boyfriend they don\u2019t push the matter, they respect the boundaries of their spouse and agree to let it go. But they still want to do it. And if their lady friend isn\u2019t willing to give it a go, they\u2019ll just find someone who is. There are plenty of websites dedicated to exactly this, in fact. You can <a href=\"https:\/\/www.glamour.com\/sex-love-life\/blogs\/smitten\/2012\/02\/5-kinky-things-men-are-craving\" target=\"_blank\">list your favorite kinks<\/a>, even mention that you\u2019re married and have never performed any of these before, and find people in your area that are interested in participating with you.<\/p>\n<h3>3) &#8211; They Were Accused of Cheating<\/h3>\n<p>It\u2019s true:<a href=\"https:\/\/madamenoire.com\/126067\/7-signs-youre-becoming-paranoid\/\" target=\"_blank\"> some women are paranoid<\/a>. They\u2019ll constantly assume that their partner is cheating on them whether there\u2019s any evidence of it or not. This alone can drive some men to cheat because they figure that if they\u2019re going to get all the grief of cheating, they might as well get some of the fun out of it too. The next time they\u2019re accused of cheating it\u2019ll actually be true, but at least now they\u2019ll have gotten laid instead of being yelled at for no good reason.<\/p>\n<h3>4) &#8211; They Aren\u2019t Attracted to Them Anymore<\/h3>\n<p>As the years pass we change, and unfortunately not always for the better. Some men confess that the reason they cheated on their wife or girlfriend is because as times changed they <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/lifeandstyle\/2013\/aug\/30\/married-dont-find-wife-sexually-attractive\" target=\"_blank\">just weren\u2019t physically attracted their wives anymore<\/a>, no matter how much they might\u2019ve loved them. The love kept them from wanting to end the relationship entirely, but they had sexual needs they needed to have met and their partners just weren\u2019t doing it for them anymore. Their sexual needs were worth the risk.<br \/>\n<center><br \/>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/KV7dHrc_r9g\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><br \/>\n<\/center><\/p>\n<h3>5) &#8211; It Doesn\u2019t Count<\/h3>\n<p>This is an actual excuse used by some men. They claim that so long as their <a href=\"https:\/\/www.askmen.com\/top_10\/dating\/top-10-reasons-not-to-tell-her-youve-cheated_10.html\" target=\"_blank\">partner never finds out<\/a>, it doesn\u2019t really count as cheating. What she doesn\u2019t know can\u2019t hurt her, after all. If they can keep the whole thing under wraps, break it off before she finds out, it\u2019s like it never happened. Some men report to doing this while their wives are pregnant since they find them unattractive as their body goes through the changes necessary for pregnancy. They\u2019ll sleep with other women while their wives are at home pregnant, and once the baby is born they\u2019ll go back to being faithful again.<\/p>\n<h3>6) &#8211; Confirmation of their Sexuality<\/h3>\n<p>Unfortunately due to sexism, men often feel like they have to prove that they\u2019re hyper masculine to qualify as a real man. Men can\u2019t wear pink, men can\u2019t enjoy romantic comedies, men can\u2019t like flowers. If they feel like any of these \u201cman rules\u201d have been violated, they may feel like they have to do something extra manly to compensate. And what\u2019s more manly than being able to brag to your friends that you\u2019re banging a bunch of chicks at once? Similarly, some gay men who are in denial of their sexuality will cheat on their wives or girlfriends as a kind of overcompensation. If they\u2019re afraid of being outed, or even afraid of admitting the fact that they\u2019re interested in men, they figure that sleeping around is sure to squash that rumor. Sadly, for some men being seen as a cheater is preferable to being seen as gay.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h1 class=\"claimlnk2\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.freehookups.com\/dating\/hotaffair\/88822\/onlycasualsex-blog-whymencheat-FH-hotaffair\/\" target=\"_blank\">Special Offer For OnlyCasualsex Readers \u2013 Free Profile On Free Hookups<\/a><\/h1>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You see a great guy in a perfect relationship with a girl most guys would kill to be with, and then you find out that he\u2019s cheated on her. Why? You can\u2019t imagine why anyone would cheat on a girl like that. 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