5 Steps To Have 5-Minute Casual Sex
There are times when you may not want to spend the time with foreplay. Occasionally you just want to have a quickie that lasts just a couple of minutes. The problem is that men and women are different, duh. Different in many ways, sex is one of them. When men want to have a quickie, women are probably just getting warmed up. Women like a sexual encounter to last about 23 minutes. Sometimes who has time, or wants that type of time, allocated to having a quick romp? The good news is that it isn’t really about the time spent, but the quality of the emotions that are spent. If you want to speed up the process there is way to make the time you do spend more quality which will satisfy both of your needs. If you want to have the great 5 minute quickie of your dreams, follow these 5 steps and you will satisfy both of your needs.
Step 1: Find the best place possible
Choose a place that has heightened sexual feelings attached to it. The thrill of almost getting caught can make sex more intense in a shorter time because you are chasing the thrill of someone walking in to discover you. Try to pick somewhere where you will both be more intense. It can be very enjoyable to try to beat the clock by orgasming quick enough to get in and out without being found out. Just make sure that your partner is comfortable with the spot you choose. If they are too freaked out by doing it in the place you choose, they won’t be able to enjoy it at all; they will be too focused on being afraid to get caught.
Step 2: Make her the center of attention
Usually, when you want to have a 5-minute quickie, that means that you are focusing just on you. If you want to have quick sex that you both can enjoy focus on her. You know you are primed and ready to go, get her on the same page and you both will get what you want quickly. You don’t have to focus on you, she will take care of that. You may even find more pleasure getting her the pleasure that she craves. Do those special things that make her feel connected to you and the 5 minute quickie can become a regular routine.
Step 3: Don’t go ripping it all off
There is something to be said about feeling naughty. When you are still clothed, but have a way “in” it can make you feel naughty like you are hiding something that no one knows. If you can choose a spot where you can gain access, but still remain clothed that will heighten the sexual feeling for you both. Just take off enough to get going, and try to do it somewhere that you will get caught and you will have a double whammy on your hands. Keep just enough on that it signals we are going to be in and out so quickly that you don’t even have to worry about taking it all off.
Step 4: Do it the way that she wants
If there is a position that you know will target her must have’s better, then start with that position. If your fling is more of a back entry, then start there. If she likes more deep penetration, lean up against something and get it going. The key is to find what it is that she wants at that moment. Depending on what type of mood she is, her position is going to vary. Try to find out what her needs are at the moment and do those things that will hasten her orgasm. It will in turn do the same to yours.
Step 5: Focus on more than just her vagina
The mistake that most men make is thinking that women are all about the vagina. The truth is that if you really want to get her going, it is important to touch all those places she loves. The more sensations you can get her to experience the quicker you are going to get her to orgasm. Try many different spots and sensations if you want her to orgasm quickly.