Welcome to Onlycasualsex.com! I have been studying the art of casual sex and picking up woman for over ten years. I honed my craft from the world renowned PUA – pick up artist Richard La Ruina, author of the book – The Natural Art off Seduction – and founder of the PUA Training institute, an organization that specializes in training men to seduce women. The time I spent learning the tips and tricks of the trade was some of the best of my life and I’ve since put it to use around the world. The internet and casual adult finder sites are the latest frontier in this business and this site exists because I want to share what I learned and how I adapted it to work in the online environment. The days of spending hours at bars and clubs working women are over; the internet makes it so easy to find sex online.


There is no reason to waste time cruising bars ever again! With more than 100 million men and women signed up to adult dating and social sex networks, the pool of possible dates is enormous. The trend is growing too! There are always going to be more men than women on these sites though, which means you need to stand out from the crowd to have success. I know what it takes to be great at casual sex dating and I’m eager to share that information with you. It’s what I do through out this site, and if you follow my advice you to will be a master before long. I’ve spent years putting the lessons of Richard to work in the online arena and the advice I pass along here is based off that real world experience. Review my 7 step casual sex strategy guide and sign-up to any of the approved casual sex sites, and YOU WILL GET LAID! I guarantee it.


Casual Sex Advice & Tips

When Do Women Want Casual Sex?

12 Oct 2013 // Comments Off

When Do Women Want Casual Sex?
There is a misnomer that only men are interested in casual sex. Although something that is more taboo in our culture because of the double standard of stereotypes, women are not supposed to want sex outside of a relationship. If they do want sex, it is only a tool to get a guy into a relationship with them. Is that true? Is it the case that women only want to engage in sex as a means to something or do they want to have sexual intercourse
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How To Ask For Casual Sex

10 Feb 2013 // No Comments

How To Ask For Casual Sex
If you're a man then you're probably horny all the time. That's pretty much how it goes for us. Every guy has a way of dealing with that. Some simply squash their desires, busying themselves with other tasks or willing their minds to slowly forget about sex entirely. Most men simply turn to masturbation to relieve their sexual frustrations. That's a fine way to do it, particularly with the easy availability of online porn...
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Be Prepared For A One Night Stand

31 Jan 2013 // No Comments

Be Prepared For A One Night Stand
Whether you're meeting your ladies on a casual dating site or you're going to a bar/club/anywhere else and hoping to bring a girl home for a one night stand you need to be prepared. You want to have casual sex and getting her back to your place is certainly the most difficult part but you can definitely screw it up once you get in the door. Don't be so arrogant as to think that you're going to get lucky just because she's there...
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How to have unattached casual sex

21 Jan 2013 // No Comments

How to have unattached casual sex
How can you become sex buddies with a girl without someone developing feelings? It's possible, but it's actually more difficult than you might think, particularly for the female half of the sexual relationship. Casual dating certainly isn't for everyone, but there are men and women out there that love relationships that are just about the sex and want nothing to do with building an emotional attachment that could lead to heart break.
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Are You Ready To Be Sex Buddies

11 Jan 2013 // No Comments

Are You Ready To Be Sex Buddies
A friends with benefits relationship that's built around casual sex and a good friendship is talked about often, depicted in movies and television plenty, and almost impossible to pull off over the long haul in the real world. Sex buddies exist but they're actually pretty rare, despite what you've seen on Sex in the City or numerous other media depictions. The reasons for this are pretty simple
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Living Out Your Sex Fetishes On Adult Finder Sites

18 Dec 2012 // No Comments

Living Out Your Sex Fetishes On Adult Finder Sites
Casual sex is a great way to live out your sexual fetishes and explore what really turns you on. That might seem counterintuitive since you'll likely be meeting your partner for the first time when you sleep with them, but since neither of you has any emotional commitment to the relationship you're free to get a little weird.
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How To Avoid Awkward Moments After Casual Sex

10 Dec 2012 // No Comments

How To Avoid Awkward Moments After Casual Sex
Casual sex is great in almost every way. The freedom to explore without the restraints of emotional connection, the pure focus on pleasure over everything else, the ability to delve into more fetishistic desires, etc. Those are all great things. What’s not always great is the moments after the casual sex. Sometimes that can be […]
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The Future Of Pick Up Artists (PUA)

16 Nov 2012 // No Comments

The Future Of Pick Up Artists (PUA)
The PUA (pick up artist) became a cultural phenomenon in 2005 when a book titled The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists was published and became a best seller. It gave readers an inside look at a culture of men that had made the act of seducing and sleeping with women into an art form.
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Picking the right adult finder site

09 Nov 2012 // No Comments

Picking the right adult finder site
With many an adult finder sites out there to choose from it can be difficult to pinpoint the one that will give you the best chance of having continuous casual sex with as many women as you desire. Let's see if we can help you locate the right adult finder for your needs. First, you should be ready to pay if you're serious about having casual sex
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How to find casual sex partners

02 Nov 2012 // No Comments

How to find casual sex partners
Casual sex is something every man should experience in his life and if you're lucky you'll have it over and over again. It's fantastic to be with someone simply for the pleasures that sexual intercourse provides without worrying about where you'll go on a date next Friday, their emotions, the long term impact of something you say or do in bed, etc.
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