Welcome to Onlycasualsex.com! I have been studying the art of casual sex and picking up woman for over ten years. I honed my craft from the world renowned PUA – pick up artist Richard La Ruina, author of the book – The Natural Art off Seduction – and founder of the PUA Training institute, an organization that specializes in training men to seduce women. The time I spent learning the tips and tricks of the trade was some of the best of my life and I’ve since put it to use around the world. The internet and casual adult finder sites are the latest frontier in this business and this site exists because I want to share what I learned and how I adapted it to work in the online environment. The days of spending hours at bars and clubs working women are over; the internet makes it so easy to find sex online.


There is no reason to waste time cruising bars ever again! With more than 100 million men and women signed up to adult dating and social sex networks, the pool of possible dates is enormous. The trend is growing too! There are always going to be more men than women on these sites though, which means you need to stand out from the crowd to have success. I know what it takes to be great at casual sex dating and I’m eager to share that information with you. It’s what I do through out this site, and if you follow my advice you to will be a master before long. I’ve spent years putting the lessons of Richard to work in the online arena and the advice I pass along here is based off that real world experience. Review my 7 step casual sex strategy guide and sign-up to any of the approved casual sex sites, and YOU WILL GET LAID! I guarantee it.


Casual Sex Advice & Tips

5 Things to Consider before Starting an Affair

23 Aug 2015 // Comments Off on 5 Things to Consider before Starting an Affair

5 Things to Consider before Starting an Affair
Everyone, at some point in a relationship, has thought about having an affair. Even if it was just a fleeting thought, it was still there. Most people don’t give it a second thought and go on about their lives, but for some it’s a temptation that keeps nagging them. But, unlike in the movies, starting […]
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Great Places to Find a Summer Casual Affair

10 Aug 2015 // Comments Off on Great Places to Find a Summer Casual Affair

Great Places to Find a Summer Casual Affair
Everyone knows where to take their family on vacation, or where to go if you’re single and looking to mingle. Disney World or Grandpa’s house with the kids, and a place with free-flowing drinks if you’re on your own and looking for company. But where do you take your mistress on vacation? You probably want […]
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The Pros and Cons of Sleeping With a Married Man

02 Aug 2015 // Comments Off on The Pros and Cons of Sleeping With a Married Man

The Pros and Cons of Sleeping With a Married Man
If you’re thinking about having an affair, one of the many things you’ll need to consider is the kind of man you’d like to have an affair with. Of the many options you have, perhaps the largest pool you’ll have to choose from is that of married men. There are certainly pros and cons to […]
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6 Things to Never Say When Striking Up A Casual Affair Online

20 Jul 2015 // Comments Off on 6 Things to Never Say When Striking Up A Casual Affair Online

6 Things to Never Say When Striking Up A Casual Affair Online
Online dating can be quite the difficult challenge for a lot of reasons. Starting an casual affair online is even trickier. There is always something much more complex about beginning an affair online than starting up a normal relationship, most often because affairs need to be kept a secret from your family, which doubtlessly take […]
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6 Reasons Why Men Seek Sex Even When In A Relationship

08 Jul 2015 // Comments Off on 6 Reasons Why Men Seek Sex Even When In A Relationship

6 Reasons Why Men Seek Sex Even When In A Relationship
You see a great guy in a perfect relationship with a girl most guys would kill to be with, and then you find out that he’s cheated on her. Why? You can’t imagine why anyone would cheat on a girl like that. As it turns out there are a lot of reasons why men seek […]
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Boundaries 101: Talking With Your Partner about Outside Relationships

30 Jun 2015 // Comments Off on Boundaries 101: Talking With Your Partner about Outside Relationships

Boundaries 101: Talking With Your Partner about Outside Relationships
Are you and your partner considering opening your relationship? Media exposure and more relaxed modern attitudes about sex have raised the profile of open relationships, where a couple agrees to let one or both partners seek sex or romance outside the relationship. When you’re new to this kind of agreement, it can be hard to […]
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4 Things Your Dating Profile Must Have When You’re Married & Looking For Casual Sex

21 Jun 2015 // Comments Off on 4 Things Your Dating Profile Must Have When You’re Married & Looking For Casual Sex

4 Things Your Dating Profile Must Have When You’re Married & Looking For Casual Sex
Dating profiles are always a pain to create, but you’ll never get anywhere on a dating website if you don’t have one. When you are a married person and using a dating website in search of casual sex, things can get a little more complicated. There’s a lot to consider that goes into making a […]
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Viva Las Vegas! Tips for Finding Casual Sex In Sin City

22 May 2015 // Comments Off on Viva Las Vegas! Tips for Finding Casual Sex In Sin City

Viva Las Vegas! Tips for Finding Casual Sex In Sin City
You and the boys are headed to Las Vegas this weekend. Yippee! You’re ready to play the slots and see the sites. You’ve got the sunblock, ATM card and plenty of condoms but the question is, will you be able to use them? People assume anyone can get laid in Las Vegas but it isn’t […]
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Sneaky Places To Have Casual Sex At Work

09 May 2015 // Comments Off on Sneaky Places To Have Casual Sex At Work

Sneaky Places To Have Casual Sex At Work
As men age, the places they find new women to date and sleep with change; gone are the days of staying out late at bars or going to house parties. Because lots of men are focused on their career, they spend a great deal of time at their workplace. Whether it’s a meeting, presentation, chatting, […]
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Why Using Sex Sites Is More Socially Accepted Than Ever Before

28 Apr 2015 // Comments Off on Why Using Sex Sites Is More Socially Accepted Than Ever Before

Why Using Sex Sites Is More Socially Accepted Than Ever Before
There will never be a shortage of men looking to date. That is a simple fact of life. As long as there are people on Earth, there will be men looking for a date. The business world will continually try to capitalize on that. Sex sells, after all. Every year more and more sex sites […]
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