Welcome to Onlycasualsex.com! I have been studying the art of casual sex and picking up woman for over ten years. I honed my craft from the world renowned PUA – pick up artist Richard La Ruina, author of the book – The Natural Art off Seduction – and founder of the PUA Training institute, an organization that specializes in training men to seduce women. The time I spent learning the tips and tricks of the trade was some of the best of my life and I’ve since put it to use around the world. The internet and casual adult finder sites are the latest frontier in this business and this site exists because I want to share what I learned and how I adapted it to work in the online environment. The days of spending hours at bars and clubs working women are over; the internet makes it so easy to find sex online.


There is no reason to waste time cruising bars ever again! With more than 100 million men and women signed up to adult dating and social sex networks, the pool of possible dates is enormous. The trend is growing too! There are always going to be more men than women on these sites though, which means you need to stand out from the crowd to have success. I know what it takes to be great at casual sex dating and I’m eager to share that information with you. It’s what I do through out this site, and if you follow my advice you to will be a master before long. I’ve spent years putting the lessons of Richard to work in the online arena and the advice I pass along here is based off that real world experience. Review my 7 step casual sex strategy guide and sign-up to any of the approved casual sex sites, and YOU WILL GET LAID! I guarantee it.


Casual Sex Advice & Tips

Simple Hacks to End Your Sexual Dry Spell

11 Oct 2017 // Comments Off on Simple Hacks to End Your Sexual Dry Spell

Simple Hacks to End Your Sexual Dry Spell
Everyone goes through sexual dry spells. It happens. Sexual dry spells can occur even when you’re in a serious relationship. Sometimes, in long term relationships, work and family life take most of your time and your too tired or there is no opportunity for sex. Other times you fall out of rhythm with each other […]
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What Game of Thrones Has Taught Us About Casual Sex

04 Oct 2017 // Comments Off on What Game of Thrones Has Taught Us About Casual Sex

What Game of Thrones Has Taught Us About Casual Sex
Just about everyone watches the hit HBO series Game of Thrones. If not, they have seen a snippit and at least heard of it. Dragons, Kings and Queens, and a plethora of sex are all part of this amazing series. People are drawn to it for many reasons. Not the least of all, the many […]
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5 Reasons Having A Sex Buddy Is Better Than An Actual Relationship

08 Sep 2017 // Comments Off on 5 Reasons Having A Sex Buddy Is Better Than An Actual Relationship

5 Reasons Having A Sex Buddy Is Better Than An Actual Relationship
A sex buddy relationship is something a lot of people, both male and female, wish for. Having a sex buddy means you have a friend you enjoy spending time with but you also engage in sexual activity together without the constraints of a traditional romantic relationship. People seek out this type of relationship because of […]
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5 Things That Are Blowing Your Chances At Finding Casual Sex

28 Aug 2017 // Comments Off on 5 Things That Are Blowing Your Chances At Finding Casual Sex

5 Things That Are Blowing Your Chances At Finding Casual Sex
Casual sex has become the norm. The hookup culture is all the rage and it is now trendy to have the occasion (or frequent) one-night stand. This wasn’t always the case. For centuries, people who engaged in casual sex hid it from everyone. Women, especially, did not let it be known if they had casual […]
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Why You Should Masturbate Every Morning

20 Aug 2017 // Comments Off on Why You Should Masturbate Every Morning

Why You Should Masturbate Every Morning
The act of masturbation has a lot more going for it than the obvious. Studies have shown various health benefits and it has proven to be good for the libido. While there are little to no disadvantages to masturbation, there are plenty of good things and even ways of making it better. Toys, lubes, lotions […]
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How Having Casual Sex Can Boost Your Self-Esteem

10 Aug 2017 // Comments Off on How Having Casual Sex Can Boost Your Self-Esteem

How Having Casual Sex Can Boost Your Self-Esteem
Casual sex was once a social taboo. Those who took partook in it were shunned and thought to be low class. Not that those views stopped anyone from doing it. They just kept it secret. As years passed and society became more knowledgeable about human sexuality, casual sex became less of a no-no. People were […]
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Best Sex Buddy Apps

25 Jul 2017 // Comments Off on Best Sex Buddy Apps

Best Sex Buddy Apps
Finding a sex buddy is not always as easy as the glossy men’s magazines lead you to believe. Contrary to popular belief, you can’t just pick a lovely lady and ask her if she’d like to be your steady sex partner -No-Strings-attached, until you change your mind. Right off the bat, that doesn’t sound to […]
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How Common Is It To Have A Sex Buddy?

14 Jul 2017 // Comments Off on How Common Is It To Have A Sex Buddy?

How Common Is It To Have A Sex Buddy?
The concept of a sex buddy or a “friends with benefits” situation is not a new one. It gets a new label every so often but the concept has remained the same for decades. Wars would come and wives still needed attention despite the love they felt for their husbands. Traveling salesmen jobs left both […]
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Best Places To Find Casual Sex In New Orleans

05 Jul 2017 // Comments Off on Best Places To Find Casual Sex In New Orleans

Best Places To Find Casual Sex In New Orleans
New Orleans. The Big Easy. Who hasn’t had a few daydreams of going to Mardi Gras, checking out the French Quarter and inspecting the swamps for ghosts and alligators? That place oozes character and every red-blooded American has thought about how much fun it would be to take a little trip to Cajun country. We […]
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Where To Find Casual Sex in New York

16 Jun 2017 // Comments Off on Where To Find Casual Sex in New York

Where To Find Casual Sex in New York
New York. Even the name brings forth images of big city excitement, wild nights and daytime adventure. Everyone is busy here. From school children to business executives, everyone is bustling about at all hours of the day. New York is well-known for everything from haute couture to club scenes and there is a place for […]
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